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Wednesday, August 27. 2008

Mens Issues: Taking a more supportive approach, Guest Harry Crouch


Harry Crouch of National Coalition for Men (a/k/a National Coalition of Free Men) joined host Lary Holland on Get Off The Bench Wednesday August 27, 2008. The discussion was simple, Men's Issues and a new approach to balancing the equality equation.


It is well understood that the area of gender discrimination and gender issues have been widely distorted by propaganda and misdirected federally funded programs, but many advocates don't seem to want to address the very real issues associated with "Mens' Issues." To those that don't want to stand up and help balance the media distortions and quiety tip toe around such issues "To hell with them," states Harry Crouch. Simply put, Harry Crouch exposes several key areas in the above episode of Get Off The Bench.

Harry Crouch is the current president of the NCFM-SD (National Coalition for Men in San Diego) and delivered a power message on Get Off The Bench. I encourage all to listen and help spread the messages that Men's Issues are quite real and help balance the gender equation by objective advocacy. It's not about being "anti-woman" it is about being "pro... man." No simpler explanation can be used.

If you are unfamiliar with Men's Issues, you can visit the California Men's Center website or watch the video below about the subject. It is a thoughtful and well guided piece on Men's Rights/Issues. Let me know what you think about Men's Issues via email at getoffthebench@familycourtreports.com. I will air some comments on our next show.

Youtube Link to Mens Issues Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=57EWApOypIQ

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Tuesday, August 26. 2008

Improved Adoption Incentives and Relative Guardianship Support Act of 2008

The Improved Adoption Incentives and Relative Guardianship Support Act of 2008, also known as Senate Bill 3038 has two significant changes that you just might need to know about. Some people are calling for the complete annihilation of the Title IV-E Program, which as some of you already know funds the Foster Care and Child Protective Services related programs in the various states.

The original reference to Title IV-E is under the Social Security Act. You can find the complete text located at the Social Security Website or under the US Code. (Begins: 42 U.S.C. 670)

Under the Improved Adoption Incentives and Relative Guardianship Support act of 2008, funding will be continued for the program but two notable changes are also be amended to the program. This is absolutely necessary, since it is what most would consider an essential services program. Some organizations are inadvertently calling for the non-renewal, but this is neither feasible or logical. The Federal government MUST continue to fund the state program under the contracts.

In the past, the federal government would only begin making payments to the states in the event that a child was taken and then placed with a licensed foster care facility. As you can imagine, the result was that the states wanted to be paid and would automatically place a child preferentially with a foster care facility instead of a stable relative guardian.

The first key change that occurs should S.3038 be passed, as it is anticipated to soon, the state would begin receiving payments if a child was taken and placed with a stable relative guardian. This will yield a reduction to the state foster care caseload and likely save every state money, allow for reduction of foster care caseloads, and have positive effects for the children involved. The more important factor is that a removed child will be able to continue living with relatives until the reason for the taking is cured.

Also in the past there was not a solid requirement to use electronic databases to locate the second parent that may not have any knowledge whatsoever that their child was removed from a single-parent home. Under the Improved Adoption Incentives and Relative Guardianship Support Act of 2008 there will be a requirement to utilize the Federal Parent Location databases to find the other parent for placement, again increasing the likelihood of a child being placed with a relative instead of sometimes hazardous state care.

There are other significant changes to the program, including an increase in funding, but the results of this bill are likely to cause each state to pass a statute that refers to payment for relative guardian placement. In the near future if your state does not pass such a statute, we can help provide model language to get the job done.

We need to be conscious of the positive and negative effects of large programs such as this and be sure to advocate responsibly. Sometimes when one is affected by a program that sometimes has extremely horrible effects on a family, it blinds us to the original goals of the programs. Taking a step back will help ensure maximum credibility for organizations and prevent the inadvertent destruction of programs that may serve legitimate needs. There is little question that more reform is necessary to the Title IV-E programs in our nation, but those changes must be identified and merged with existing renewal bills and more responsible advocacy.
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Children Need Both Parents? Absolutely! The results are in, here is what you can do!


Children Need Both Parents is about Family Preservation.
Protecting the parent-child bond is essential and ejecting government intrusion is necessary to accomplish that protection. You can help in your state by asking for model language to be introduced to respect and
protect parental rights.

Statistics for Joint Custody, IE: Joint Custody Statistics, are now available at a plain language website that you can reference in your rebuttals to propaganda that pops up from time to time on websites across the nation.

For the most part, there are distinct actions that can be taken in every State. Some of which includes requesting State Constitutional Amendments, Resolutions from Government Officials, and Statutory/Legislative requests to appropriate levels of government.

Children Need Both Parents can be referenced by anyone across the United States. If you have information that you would like updated, we will be expanding some simple references for judicial, legislative, and executive communications.

Children Need Both Parents is the authority on Family Preservation, Statistics, and the Parent-Child relationship. Parental Rights must be respected and protected by all. Say that phrase out loud and you will know exactly what I am talking about.

There are additional sites linked such as SplitNTwo.Com that should be reviewed as well for more official information and references. Let's spread the word. Tell two new people every day!

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Tuesday, August 12. 2008

Equal Parenting Bike Trekker Sustains Minor Injuries

One of the Equal Parenting Bike Trek Riders sustained minor injuries when shoe laces became bound to a pedal while at rest. When I first heard of the injury, I was of course thinking what someone might look like after hitting the road at 55 miles per hour and was relieved to hear that was of course not the case! After a detour to a local medical center in Pennsylvania, all rides resumed on the road this morning. They are "heading into the major mountains now" stated Dan Diebolt, in a phone conversation this morning. They are right on schedule to be arriving in Washington DC on August 14, 2008 exactly one day ahead of the Family Preservation Festival 2008 National Civil Rights Event.

Also, a special announcement and newsletter was released from Family Court Reports, earlier today with final comments and an urgent call for help in several key areas.

You can view the critical newsletter at: http://www.familycourtreports.com/newsletters/specialannouncement-1.html

It is imperative that more people engage in direct action with their elected officials staffers and offices as well as increased attention to the media outlets. Using the special announcement as your guide will get you in contact with officials in a matter of minutes!

To make an immediate and necessary contribution to the Family Preservation Festival, please visit this State Contributions link, find your state, and click "chip-in." It is safe and secure and your identity will remain confidential.

Get Off The Bench will be hosting conference calls on both Tuesday and Wednesday to rally and direct any final soldiers for change and we look forward to helping! Live Call Ins at 8:05PM EDT via 724-444-7444 talkcast id: 43507 pin: 1+# and ask your questions live!

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Friday, August 8. 2008

Action Item: HUGE Equal Parenting Coverage (Bike Trek and Rally)


The Oakland County Press covers the Equal Parenting Bike Trek, Scott Hudson, and mentions National DC Event (dcfestival2008.com) in HUGE article just one day after the successful departure!

ACTION ITEM: Check it out below and fax it to a Michigan Legislator with the following message: BRING HB 4564 and HOUSE JOINT RESOLUTION NN TO A VOTE NOW!

GET OFF THE BENCH WILL BE HOSTING A SPECIAL SHOW WITH THE BIKE RIDERS ON SATURDAY NIGHT AT 8PM EST. TO CALL IN LIVE... FOLLOW THESE INSTRUCTIONS:

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Saturday, July 5. 2008

EJFI: Dr. Charles Corry: Paternity Fraud - Reform, or it?


Reform, or is it?


On May 29, 2008, Colorado Governor Bill Ritter signed Senate Bill 08-183 Concerning the Effect of DNA Evidence On Child-Related Orders. The act will take effect on August 15, 2008. Under prior Colorado law once a paternity judgement or final orders in a divorce had been entered regarding child support a man was required to continue paying regardless of what later genetic evidence revealed.


Getting some relief for paternity fraud victims in Colorado has been a six-year struggle and has resulted in twelve EJF newsletters on the topic of Condoning Slavery Under Color of Law.


State Senator Shawn Mitchell deserves much credit for sponsoring this bill and getting it through the Colorado Senate. We have been harshly critical of Senator Mitchell in the past on this issue but he has demonstrated both the intelligence and integrity to learn from his mistakes and try and help correct the problem.


Why is paternity fraud a problem?



  • Since testing for paternity using genetic, or DNA evidence became widely available the laboratories doing such testing have consistently reported that ~30% of the men tested were not the fathers of the children in question. As of 2008 there are roughly 400,000 DNA tests done by laboratories yearly in the United States .

  • Currently some 38% of children are borne out-of-wedlock nationally. Reportedly, two thirds of the children in California are now born to unwed mothers. Commonly in such cases the father is not present, is unknown (she was drunk or on drugs), or the mother had several sexual partners during her fertile period when the child was conceived.

  • Evidence continues to mount that at least one third of married women have extramarital affairs ,making it impossible to assume a woman's husband is the father of her children.

  • Child support enforcement (CSE) agencies have a widespread practice of arbitrarily selecting a man on flimsy or no evidence and imposing a default paternity judgement on him with little or no notice or proof. There are far too many cases of Manuel Nava becoming Manuel Navarro in the doltish hands of CSE bureaucrats eager to earn federal bonuses for making a man a "father" by judicial fiat.

  • Only about 12 out of 100 children are born today to a couple who are legally married and remain so until their children reach majority.


Thus the potential for paternity fraud is huge and there is no penalty for a woman who commits it.


As a result there is a roughly one-in-three chance in a paternity case where the woman is asking for child support that the man named, either by the mother or CSE, is not the biological father of the child.


We also encounter far too many cases of married women using false allegations of domestic violence and restraining orders to keep their husbands away from the children when seeking child support in a divorce, often because she knows or suspects her husband is not the father. Again, our experience is that in contested cases where false allegations are used against the husband that there is about a one-in-three chance one or more of the kids aren't his.


Paternity fraud equals slavery


Slavery is defined as the state of a person who is a chattel of another and is a social-economic system under which certain persons - known as slaves - are deprived of personal freedom and compelled to work. Slaves are held against their will and are deprived of the right to leave, to refuse to work, or to receive compensation (such as wages) in return for their labor.


Clearly any man compelled by force to support a child that demonstrably is not seed of his loins, and imprisoned when he refuses, is a slave. Reasonable estimates suggest there are approximately 1.4-1.6 million men so enslaved in the United States today. This is an outrage that begs for redress, but dating back to 1857 in Dred Scott v Sanford, Plessy v Ferguson (1896), Korematsu v United States (1944), and continuing to the present day by forcing a man to pay child support to the biological father of his wife's child, the courts have historically supported slavery


As there is no punishment for a woman who commits paternity fraud, it is the perfect crime.


Remedies provided by SB08-183


As originally introduced, SB08-183 provided that if a man was able to find the mother and somehow get DNA testing done on the children that conformed to the requirements for genetic testing spelled out in Colorado Revised Statutes (CRS) § 13-25-126 showing that he was not the biological father, that an existing order for child support "shall be set aside or modified." No provision was made in the original bill for dismissing arrearages that might have accumulated, although no support was required from the date the motion for modification was filed if the modification was granted.


Provisions were included in the bill to exempt cases where the man knowingly accepted responsibility even though he wasn't the biological father, where he had adopted the child(ren), or the woman used artificial insemination to conceive.


That bill made it through the Colorado Senate intact but ran into problems in the House despite the able support of its sponsor in that chamber, Rep. Nancy Todd. The most egregious of the problems was an amendment introduced by Rep. Bob Gardner that leaves the determination of continuing a man's slavery to the discretion of the court. To wit, the child support order will only be modified or dismissed if, and only if "the court determines that it is just and proper under the circumstances and in the best interests of the child." As noted above, the courts have a long, sordid history of supporting slavery, and there can be little doubt that they will continue to do so today.


The "best interest of the child" has long been a feminist mantra as to why paternity fraud should be condoned and continued. However, other than emotional rhetoric, these sob sisters have never advanced an argument as to how enslaving a man will result in, or maintain a bond with a child he probably has never known, or whom he is prohibited from seeing by restraining orders or distance. I have addressed my outrage with this amendment previously and at a public meeting on June 3, 2008, I pointed out to Rep. Gardner that during his first term he had endorsed slavery, promoted adultery, and driven another nail in the coffin of marriage. I then asked him what he planned to do if he won a second term? To his credit he recognized the problem and pledged to address the issue of paternity fraud if reelected.


The final bill, as passed by the Colorado House, and reconciled in committee, does contain a provision that the court "...may vacate or deem as satisfied, in whole or in part, unpaid child support obligations arising from or based on the order determining parentage." But, again that is left to the kindness of the judge's discretion and it isn't at all clear whether that provision will conflict with the federal Bradley Amendment that does not allow judicial discretion in dismissal of child support obligations and arrearages.


While no assistance is offered a man to locate mother and child, whom he often has never heard of before CSE began garnishing his wages, he is only given two years from the entry of the original child support order in which to challenge it. It is not uncommon for CSE to take more than two years to find a man after a default paternity order is entered and this bill will give CSE an incentive to delay notification in some cases for two years and a day.


However, as SB08-183 was introduced in large measure at the behest of current victims of paternity fraud in Colorado, if their child support order was, or is entered prior to August 15, 2008, they have until August 15, 2010, to file a motion to modify or set aside their obligations if they can find the mother and chid(ren) and get a DNA paternity test done that satisfies the requirements of CRS § 13-25-126 (and lots of luck, slave).


Motions to modify child support in Colorado for children who are not yours can be filed anytime after August 15, 2008, when SB08-183 goes into effect.


Paternity determinations in the modern world


SB08-183 is at most a stopgap measure that provides some relief primarily for current victims. But paternity fraud is a crime that should not be allowed to happen, and the law should certainly not encourage it as it presently does.


What then would be desirable to prevent the continuation of these destructive practices that pit men against children to the detriment of all?


At present we have the worst of all worlds:



  • Many mothers don't get the child support they need.

  • Many women and children are placed in dire circumstances when their husband is hit with a bogus child support order.

  • Many men are ordered to pay support for children that are not theirs and jailed when they don't.

  • Many children are cut off from contact with their biological fathers, which often has dramatic negative effects on their mental and physical health.

  • And CSE has built itself a massive and corrupt empire based on falsehoods from every side and frequently keeps child support money it collects for its own use.


The problem is to find a balance that ensures biological fathers will support their children while putting an end to the widespread practice of naming the man with the deepest pockets as "father," or enslaving cuckolded husbands to support their wife's adultery.


Standing


First, and foremost, in conformance with ancient principle paternity should be unchallenged by the courts or any other government agency for any reason. Today paternity usually goes unchallenged unless, and until the mother seeks child support. To preserve the principle is to say that only the mother of the child(ren) shall have standing to bring action for child support or to challenge paternity for any reason.


Experience with CSE makes it all too clear that those fumbling bureaucrats are all too willing to name any man as a father in order to reap incentives and bonuses from federal and state programs. Cases where a man sterile from birth is given a default judgement of child support, military men who are saddled with child support despite the fact they were deployed during the time conception occurred, cases where the child doesn't even exist, has died, or has been placed in foster care or adopted, but CSE still demands support payments are daily stories.


Thus, CSE should be limited to collections where a woman has won a court case for child support against a man and a DNA paternity test has conclusively demonstrated that he is the biological father.


Presumption of innocence


As noted above there is roughly a one-in-three chance that a man in a paternity case, or a contested divorce where custody is an issue, is not the biological father of one or more of the woman's children (if they exist).


Therefore, the law should require that no child support for any child be ordered unless and until genetic evidence proves beyond reasonable doubt that the man is the biological father, unless the man has formally adopted the child.


SB08-183 makes an exception for children conceived "by means of assisted reproduction." I would not make that exception in the law for the reason that "assisted reproduction" covers a multitude of methods that a woman may undertake with or without her partner's knowledge or consent. Thus, limits should be placed on support for children conceived by artificial insemination or other methods of "assisted reproduction." Before child support can be ordered in such cases it must be established in court that the man had prior knowledge and had given written, notarized consent to accept legal responsibility for any child(ren) resulting from such procedures. Using semen obtained from a friend, neighbor, or other donor should not entitle a woman to child support from her husband or lover without his knowledge and prior consent.


Note that this leaves unsettled the issue of whether a semen donor should later be liable for child support. I suggest such donors should be specifically excluded by statute from child support obligations unless they adopt the child(ren). And current terminology for "assisted reproduction" might easily include adultery with the wife banging a friend or neighbor to deliberately get pregnant.


Proof of existence


A number of cases have come to the attention of the EJF where the mother is collecting support for a child that never existed, has died, been placed in foster care, adopted, or given to other relatives. Also, cases where the woman is not the mother of the child for whom she is claiming support are known.


Therefore, when a woman files a claim for child support the first step should involve the court (a) determining the child(ren) exist and are in the custody and care of the mother, and (b) obtaining genetic evidence from the mother and the children under the conditions of CRS § 13-25-126 to establish their relationship. Once those conditions are satisfied the court would then order the man named in the case to submit to a genetic test, again under CRS § 13-25-126, to prove his relationship, or lack thereof with the child(ren). That leaves the question of paternity undisturbed unless, and until a mother brings action in court on her own behalf and of her own volition.


That would also bring to an end the default paternity judgements that range from a minimum of 30% to 70-80% of all such orders, and that are so beloved and useful to the CSE agents of tyranny in collecting their incentives and bonuses. Currently all CSE need do in many cases is name a man, any man, in any state, get a default judgement, and that man wins "fatherhood" with little or no recourse. And his wages are automatically garnished, which is often the first time he is aware that he is a "father."


Another necessary requirement is for CSE to periodically, e.g., once a year, verify the mother still has the child(ren) in her care and custody. When and where that cannot be confirmed child support payments should automatically stop. Too often mom fobs the kids off on some relative, usually a grandmother, and keeps the child support to support her drug and alcohol problems. Child support payments used to pay for meth don't benefit anyone. And since more than one woman has claimed child support in multiple states , and from different men, for the same child(ren), CSE should be charged with comparing claims with other states as well as internally.


Father/child(ren) bonding


Consistently the feminist presentation for keeping men enslaved and paying support for children proven not to be theirs, and too often the result of the man's wife's adultery, is that relieving him of child support would destroy the father/child bond. That claim is fallacious on many levels but if the bond between a man and a child is so important then, at a minimum, shared parenting between a biological father and his child(ren) must be enshrined in the law with penalties comparable to non-payment of child support for interference with visitation.


Also, it is the experience of the Equal Justice Foundation that many men bond very closely with children they have not sired. The problem here is with the legal and moral issue of enslaving men to pay for their wife's adultery or for children of women they often don't even know.


If the bonds of slavery were not an issue it is much more likely that men who have regarded children as their own would continue to love and support them as best they could. That is especially true if they had regular contact with them rather than the flurry of DV charges, restraining orders, and false abuse claims so commonly used now by wives and lovers to keep men away from children so that DNA paternity testing cannot be done.


What have we missed or forgotten


The tabulation above of what the law should be revised to include and remove is certainly incomplete. We need to hear from others how best to deal with paternity fraud and child support issues.


This is not a gender issue as paternity fraud as often impacts women and their children as it does men from what we've seen.


So we need fairly simple, but relatively foolproof and just methods of ensuring that men support children they sire but makes it virtually impossible for women to commit paternity fraud.


Send us your ideas! The Equal Justice Foundation will keep fighting but don't expect a miraculous, overnight cure for all these issues. Besides, the Colorado legislature isn't even in session until next January.


Conclusions


Current law does nothing to deter or punish paternity fraud, nor does it offer any assistance to victims of this travesty. Some relief is offered by the current legislation, SB08-183, to those enslaved by this crime if, and only if they can locate the woman committing the fraud and somehow get DNA paternity tests done under the strict standards of the law within a two year period. And that presumes no restraining order against him exists. But no assistance in obtaining their freedom is offered to these slaves, who number about 1.5 million in the United States , and over 20,000 in Colorado.


Current law thus endorses slavery and rewards adultery, and the only escape far too many find from this injustice is suicide. Nor does the law provide any inducement for men to marry and sire children, to the great detriment and ultimate destruction of our society.


Clearly much remains to be done and we can only hope that Colorado State Senator Shawn Mitchell and Rep. Nancy Todd will renew their efforts in the coming year, and that Rep. Bob Gardner will live up to his pledge if reelected. We also call on the other sponsors of SB08-183, state Senators Cadman, Gibbs, Gordon, Schultheis, Ward, and Wiens, and Representatives Labuda, Mitchell V., Roberts, and Stafford to join together again to overcome the injustices inherent in current law.


Many shibboleths must fall if the pyramid of paternity fraud is to tumble. But the institution of marriage depends on honesty and integrity and will not continue under laws that encourage fraud and reward adultery. And history clearly demonstrates that we cannot count on judges to do anything but sustain the extant slavery, now in the name of "the best interest of the child."


Charles E. Corry, Ph.D., F.G.S.A.
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